“When my wife and I were first married, she kept trying to make me like her. But she shouldn’t try to make me like her. And I shouldn’t try to make her like me. We both should try to make ourselves like Jesus.”

–Bob Goff

(In case you’re interested, here’s a more in-depth look at our tendency to invest in making others more like ourselves, rather than making ourselves more like Jesus: Like Me (Or like Jesus))