Christmas shopping is stressful.
Even when we try to stay focused on Jesus, there can be a lot of expectation from friends and family (or in our own heads) to give the perfect gift.
We want it to be meaningful, life changing, and memorable.
But what’s most meaningful are the relationships themselves.
My sister recently met up with a classmate of ours. In the course of their conversation, Karla mentioned my book, and the friend got it, read it, and met with my sister again to talk about it (and other things, I’m sure) over coffee.
It gave me a good example of how loving like Jesus is a process that involves relationships with other people (something we’ve been talking about recently as part of the next book).
Since you’re a part of my learning to love like Jesus journey, I wanted to share some good pairings for my book. If you’re struggling with today’s noise about the “best gift,” I want to invite you to spend some time, offline, reading and talking with another human being.
Gift 1:
Estimated Cost: $58.00 + Shipping
Invite your friend for conversation with a handmade mug. Enjoy your favorite beverages and favorite books.
Gift 2:
Estimated Cost: $20.00 + Shipping
For someone who really loves tea, find a new flavor to share.
Gift 3:
Estimated Cost: $40.00 + Shipping
Sports can be a perfect way to grow closer. Have some friendly competition and good conversations off court.
Gift 4:
Book + Gift Certificate to your favorite local place
Estimated Cost: varies
A gift certificate to a local restaurant is an invitation to go out together. Whether it’s coffee or a full meal, you have to intentionally make time for your friends. They’ll appreciate it.


